Kdrama Review: It’s Okay to Not Be Okay

Out of all the k-dramas, this is perhaps the one I see online with the most memes and fan videos. It’s hyped up a lot, and after watching it, I can see why. But I could also see why a lot of people find it a contentious show. Let’s start off with the good stuff first.

I think the show explores autism powerfully and beautifully. And also in a very real and human way. Having to look after an autistic brother from a very young age isn’t something anyone can do without fatigue, and the show is really good in showing us how Kim Soo-Hyun’s character sometimes suffers from privately wanting more. I think his acting, and particularly Oh Jung-Se’s were just great. There’s also some really beautiful character moments dealing with loneliness, seeking companionship and love, and how sometimes something as simple as sharing dinner with someone else can feel special. The show is really lovely in that sense, accentuated by a blend of songs that correctly fit the tone of the show and various scenes.

Seo Yea-Ji is undoubtedly the highlight of the show, and the first half of the show is shaped by how she pursues her man. She’s funny, witty and Seo Yea-Ji masters the art of using those subtle shifts in facial expressions to convey how her character is feeling in that moment — and it’s often significant in giving you a feel of who her character is.